𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐑𝐚𝐩𝐞

𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐑𝐚𝐩𝐞

“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐔𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧 𝐕𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐍𝐨 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐓𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐬 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭”

Craig and I were at a cozy hookah bar, enjoying tea and spending some time together, which was one of our preferred date spots

The scent of fruity smoke permeated the air, and the gentle hum of conversation created an intimate atmosphere

There were certain nights when everything seemed to be going smoothly

Until it didn’t

A group of males was sitting beside us, and their numbers kept increasing as they joined us

No big deal

Nevertheless, I had one of them sit directly in front of me. It was closer to Craig than I had thought, despite the fact that there was a small table in between us. The energy was shifted at that point

The man’s gaze was not limited to his gaze, as he was also giving me close looks. Up and down, lingering in ways that made me want to crawl. Craig’s arm was encircling me. Craig was the center of my attention, directing all my movements and energy. Yet, this individual persisted in staring, his energy gushing into our vicinity, unintentionally

That’s the issue with energy

The need for emotional support is not dependent on words

What was the purpose of this man’s activity?

It was a forceful transgression

He was not touching me, didn’t say anything inappropriate, but he was actively playing with an internal fantasy that I had not given permission for. His sexual energy was not being restricted, directed, or reciprocated. The leak was encroaching into our vicinity, interfering with a moment that Craig and I were invested in. He was taking away from me without my consent, regardless of whether he realized it or not

Energetic infiltration is the term being referred to here

When someone projects their desires, fantasies, or emotions onto another person without consent, it is known as leaky energy. A conscious attempt to force another person to participate in a conversation they have not given their consent to

This can occur in sexual settings, as well as in emotional, mental, or spiritual interactions. We’re all familiar with the feeling. Someone staring too long, imposing their thoughts on us, or trying to get our attention in a way that feels intrusive and inappropriate

The act of projecting sexual energy without considering the boundaries or receptivity of the other person can become intrusive when the former is not controlling the latter. The physical distance is inconsequential

The concept of space energy does not exist

Here’s the catch

Both parties are negatively impacted by such behavior

The recipient (I in this scenario) experiences discomfort, agitation, and a sense of being taken away energetically from the situation

This is a wrongdoing, and while it may not leave any physical scars, it leaves an energetic impression

The nervous system reacts to it

My body began to tensile, for instance. My pulse ratcheted, and I became overly sensitive to the attention that was being directed towards me. The reason why so many women feel unsafe in public spaces is because they are constantly exposed to energy that they never gave their consent for

If someone leaks energy, What happens to them?

Despite what some may believe, this is not only detrimental to the person receiving the payment. The person who is doing it is sabotaging themselves greatly

Taking without consent with great energy is reinforcing a pattern of disempowerment that someone needs to maintain. Rather than actively cultivating and channeling their sexual energy, they are spilling it outward in the hope of receiving an energetic return. The absence of mutual exchange and respect in this approach means that it is never satisfactory. This leaves an energetic vacuum, which causes more frustration, disconnection and often compulsive behaviour

A man who persistently releases his sexual desires onto others without authorization will be attracted to the very connection he seeks. Those who feel such energy are likely to retreat, shut down, or even defend their space

That’s not attraction

That’s repulsion

The issue is not related to sexual energy

Sexual energy is a form of life force energy

This is a creative, powerful and emotive topic that should be nurtured and shared in ways that enhance relationships rather than detract from them. The difficulty is not having sexual energy. The way we use it is the starting point

Our energy becomes magnetic when we channel it with awareness. The leakage does not attract people, but instead creates distance rather than connection

Margot Anand, one of my first teachers, taught me that sexual energy should be contained and circulated rather than spilling out without any specific purpose. She emphasized that the proper utilization of sexual energy is not dependent on external sources, but rather enhances our own vitality

The reason why ancient traditions emphasize the transformation of sexual energy rather than wasting it is due to this

The issue does not pertain to repression

It’s about refinement

The greater the ability to hold their own energy without unconsciously passing it on to others, the more magnetic a person becomes. They acquire a sense of authority, strength, and profound inner satisfaction

The authentic secret will be revisited here

People can experience love only when they are guided by their inner self

This is not just a contemporary spiritual concept, but an ancient truth as well. Love is considered divine in the Song of Solomon, as it is more than just taking:

“My beloved is mine, and I am my treasurer.”. ” (Song of Solomon 6: 3)

Mutual exchange is the central theme of this verse, not possession. When both individuals are in tune with their own vitality, present and giving from a place of abundance rather than desperation, authentic connection is attained

The key takeaway from this is that energy exchange necessitates consensiveness

The act of unknowingly absorbing, leaking, or projecting energy onto others leads to disconnection, discomfort, and dissatisfaction on both sides of the argument. During our date, both Craig and I felt uneasy due to the negative impact it had on our relationship

When we acknowledge our own energy and take ownership of our actions, the world transforms

Attraction becomes effortless

Connection becomes deeper

Can we truly experience Love when it is felt instead of being compelled to pursue or steal it from others?

If this conversation resonates with you, I encourage you to take a closer look at the topic. A free live class will be held by me on Valentine’s Day, where I will discuss conscious energy exchange, the detection of leaky energy, how to improve one’s own energy and create truly magnetic connections

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