Understanding FLETCHER’s Evolution Beyond Labels

Previously, many described FLETCHER’s image using two words: chaotic and queer. Her music’s raw energy and her predominantly LGBTQ+ fanbase, particularly lesbians and queer women, solidified this perception. The 2022 hit “Becky’s So Hot,” where she publicly addressed her ex-girlfriend’s new partner, further fueled this dramatic image. The singer herself acknowledged that “chaos” was often the word people used to describe her.

However, the singer, whose real name is Cari Fletcher, is now entering a new phase. While the chaos and unwavering queerness remain, her latest album, Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me?, reveals a more delicate and sensitive side. She explains a shift in her approach to live performances, moving away from what she calls “epic experiences” focused solely on partying and towards a more introspective and personal connection with her audience.

This new album consists of twelve introspective tracks where the New Jersey native shares deeply personal experiences. Although her music has always been autobiographical, this collection offers a unique level of vulnerability. The themes extend beyond romantic relationships, encompassing her struggles within the music industry and her evolving understanding of her sexuality. The final song, “Would You Still Love Me?”, uses spoken word to pose profound questions about self-acceptance and external validation.

The lead single, “Boy,” which details a romantic encounter with a man, ignited considerable controversy upon its release, particularly given her previous focus on same-sex relationships. This led to criticism and debate online, with some accusing her of self-victimization. Despite this, Fletcher remains steadfast in her queer identity and commitment to creating inclusive spaces for her LGBTQ+ fans.

The following is an excerpt from an interview offering further insight into her new album:

Interviewer: I feel like this is your most personal project yet. Do you agree?

FLETCHER: I believe it is. My music has always been deeply personal. However, this album adds a new layer because previous works primarily focused on romantic relationships. This record is about my experiences as an artist, a public figure, and explores my relationship with various facets of myself. It is thus the most personal album I have created. I have opened up new depths through this album.

Interviewer: You just referred to your stage name, FLETCHER, in the third person. Do you view her as a character or an extension of you?

FLETCHER: The name “Fletcher” originated from my childhood sports days. As a child struggling with mental health and anxiety, “FLETCHER” became my stage persona, embodying strength and confidence that I lacked personally. While I am FLETCHER, “FLETCHER” represents the tougher, more resilient aspects of myself.

Interviewer: This album follows quickly after your previous release, In Search of the Antidote. Why the rapid turnaround?

FLETCHER: Last year was incredibly challenging. I was on tour and struggling with mental and physical health. This album became a desperate attempt to express my feelings and understand myself. Music has always been my outlet for processing difficult emotions, and this record poured out of me. Every song written is included; there’s no excess material.

Interviewer: You mentioned the struggles of touring. Will you tour again?

FLETCHER: This album is about creating space for myself. I love making music, but it has become complicated due to industry pressures, fan relationships, and other complexities. I’ve lost some of my love for the creative process. I’ll sing again someday, but I need a break after this release.

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Interviewer: Your first single, “Boy,” is about a relationship with a man. Were you apprehensive about releasing it?

FLETCHER: I wanted to release it upfront because hiding it would have overshadowed other aspects of the album. I was nervous, but my career has been about being authentic.

Interviewer: How has the response been?

FLETCHER: It’s been a journey—a journey with the internet, social media, self-trust, and letting go of the need for universal acceptance. While painful and confusing at times, it’s also been beautiful, and I feel I am growing.

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Interviewer: I saw the negative comments on your Instagram. Sexuality is fluid. You shared a part of yourself; people should accept change.

FLETCHER: Thank you. My romantic history is primarily with women, and that’s reflected in my music. “Boy” is part of my journey. I wrote it because I needed to hear it, and others likely do too. Connecting with fans who share similar experiences has been deeply meaningful.

Interviewer: Some noticed you deleted previous sapphic content. Can you clarify?

FLETCHER: I regularly clear my Instagram when releasing new music. It’s symbolic of a new chapter. I’m proud of every version of myself, and there’s no erasure of my sapphic identity. This album celebrates evolution.

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Interviewer: What would you say to those who criticized you?

FLETCHER: Everyone is entitled to their feelings. My experience is also valid. I hope for more grace and understanding within the LGBTQ+ community and beyond.

Interviewer: You seem calm now. How did you reach this place, considering the “Becky’s So Hot” era?

FLETCHER: My career has been chaotic from the start. COVID, illness, and intense touring took a toll. “Chaos” became associated with my brand, but there’s more to me. This album captures the softer, more tender parts of myself. I needed to reconnect with myself and ground myself.

Interviewer: The idea of being “born this way” is important, but it can be limiting. Sexuality is fluid.

FLETCHER: People’s journeys with their sexuality vary. For some, it’s fluid, for others, it’s not. I don’t know what the future holds, but I’m queer. Queerness has given me an open heart and mind, and I bring that into all my relationships. The challenge is when sexuality defines someone’s brand. I’m honoring my heart; if people don’t like it, that’s okay.

This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.